10 tips for flirting (and how you should never seduce)

A guide to what to do (and what to avoid) to be more attractive.

Are you losing your mind over the new girl at the office? Do you find it hard to concentrate when she's around? So what are you waiting for to win her over? On paper, it all seems so simple, but it's not.. Well, for some people it is easy, but for others... it's almost an impossible mission.

If you don't know how to start communicating with women you are attracted to, we encourage you to follow these tips if you want love to succeed. We can't guarantee 100% success, but you can maximize your chances if you put them into practice.

• Recommended article: "10 ways to be more attractive (scientifically proven)".

How long does it take a man to send his first love text message?

And that girl makes you so nervous that it's hard for you to say three words in a row, right? Well, relax, because that has happened to all of us. In fact, according to a survey conducted by the portal to meet new romances, Match.com, it takes us men fourteen and a half minutes to create our first love message..

The anxiety to look good, the insecurity or the excitement of the moment, make us spend hours looking for the right words so that everything goes well. We men can be very proud, but when we get a girl in our hearts, we can't help but...

• Recommended article: "5 tips to stop being so proud".

Flirt by WhatsApp... better than Facebook

Times have changed and so have flirting strategies. In fact, it is common to conquer that person we passionately desire through Facebook or WhatsApp, and both tools become perfect allies to get to have something more than a friendship with the person, as they allow us to chat with the other person at any time and, in addition, they are ideal for shy people.

But which of these two tools is better? According to research carried out by The App Date, when it comes to flirting, Spaniards prefer WhatsApp by 98.5%.. The figure speaks for itself.

• Do you want some tips for flirting by WhatsApp? In this article we have the perfect guide to flirt by this means: "Ligar por WhatsApp, 10 keys to chat effectively".

The best apps for flirting

In addition to WhatsApp, there are many applications that are used to flirt. What's more, there are apps whose main objective is to find a partner or flirt. Flirting opportunities have greatly increased in the last decade as a result of new technologies.Because the emergence of smartphones revolutionized digital flirting.

Now it is possible to be connected 24 hours a day to this type of applications and, in addition, meet potential candidates who are close to you.

Do you want to know the best apps for flirting? Click on this link to see the top 10 apps for flirting Do you dare to try them?

Tips for flirting

Here are the best tips, tricks and strategies to get the attention of that special person.

1. Make sure she is available

You'd better make sure if she has a partner or not, because that kind of girl will only give you problems.. Besides, why complicate your life with the amount of interesting women who can make a place in his life?

2. Start a conversation

To meet a girl, don't force the situation.. So find the right time to strike up a conversation and show that you're a nice guy. Whether it's in the hallway or in class, ideally start with a contextual question because you'll get her attention.

• A little help: "Guide to meeting new people: places, skills and tips".

3. Look for common interests

One of the keys to get them to stay there talking to you is to look for those common interests that you both have.. It is not about pretending that you like the same thing, but when you talk about something, it should be from the heart. It is likely that there are things that you both like, hobbies that you can share.

4. Smile and look into his eyes

There is nothing more seductive than looking into the eyes and smiling, as it gives confidence and is a sign of trust.It gives confidence and is a sign of attention. Eye contact makes it clear that you are an honest person and the smile is contagious. If you convey a good emotional state, the person in front of you will notice it and will want to get to know you better.

5. Break the barrier and touch her

Touching a girl too quickly is a barrier that many do not dare to pass. But it is possible to cross this line, always with respect. A caress with no intention of anything else or simply a touch of complicity can be enough to gain the trust of the other person. However, if you go too fast and too direct, you may not be able to win the other person's trust, if you go too fast and too direct, you can give a bad image of the other person..

6. Be fun and funny

Women love men who are funny and who make them laugh, and if you act like this, you will surely be able to win the other person's trust.If you act like that, she won't regret being with you. This doesn't mean that you take some things seriously. Simply, if you are with her, make her remember that magnificent day.

• Article to go deeper: "10 tricks to be more sociable and fun".

7. Don't take it seriously

Even if she is the woman of your dreams, if you take it as life-taking if you don't get her, you will be more anxious than usual. The key is to be calm and in control of your actions.. This way you will be able to bring out your full potential. Nothing is too important in this life to get nervous about. Just flow and everything will be fine.

8. Relax and enjoy

Therefore, relax and enjoy the moment.. Don't be so worried about making everything seem perfect. Trust in your possibilities and go ahead. Imperfection is no sin: no one is perfect, nor can anyone aspire to be. Naturalness is much more attractive.

9. Be yourself

When I refer to being yourself, I mean that you know yourself and know what your strengths are. and the other person will be attracted to your confidence knowing who you are. The problem with pretending to be someone you're not is that if you get caught you're going to look bad. Don't take risks and show yourself as you are: it's the best way to bring out the best version of yourself.

10. Don't look desperate

If being self-confident is very attractive, looking desperate has the opposite effect, looking desperate has the opposite effect. You must show interest but, if you don't want to scare her off at the first opportunity, don't look desperate.

• To learn more: "Flirting without flirting: 8 beginner seducer's mistakes".