8 signs that a man likes you

Several verbal and non-verbal signs that you may have noticed in those guys who are pining for you.

There is always talk about women's "innate" ability to detect when a man is interested in them. There are a series of gestures, signals and signs that men can't help but do when they are close to a girl that drives them crazy..

But, despite the fact that some signs are quite obvious, many women have trouble telling if a guy is interested in them, or not. The information can be ambiguous at times, to the point where many girls don't quite know if it's a physical attraction, or a simple friendship.

Does that guy like you? Signs that can help you find out

To clarify these aspects that are unmistakable signs of attraction, we have prepared this small guide for you to know when a man really likes you, with a high degree of reliability.

1. Permanent smile

A classic. If the man in front of you can not stop smiling when you are close, for no apparent reason, he may like you, and a lot. The smile is one of the essential ways to express that another person causes us good feelings..

If he likes to talk to you, usually approaches you to ask you anything and has a high mood when he is next to you... it is very likely that he feels something special for you.

2. He looks at your mouth

A more subtle sign, but it is also a good indicator to know if he likes you. If when you talk a lot he looks at your lips and your mouth, it is possible that it is a sign that he likes you..

If he's looking at your mouth, chances are he wants to kiss you. Obviously this doesn't mean that anyone who looks at your lips is desperately wanting to kiss you, but it can be a sign that, added to others, can be enough clues for you to start thinking that there is attraction in the atmosphere. Watching your lips is an unconscious gesture, but it says a lot about the intention of the guy you are chatting with.

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3. He pays attention to you

This is a more obvious sign, although many women do not value it as it deserves. If he devotes attention, care and pampering to you, it is very likely that he is interested in you. If he also has gestures and is gentle ... it is even clearer the issue.

If you notice that whenever you say something he shows interest, if he tries to catch up on the topics you usually talk about... you should start thinking that this guy is attracted to you.

4. He is nice to you

Another classic, and one of the most obvious signs: if that man is nice to you, if he tries to make things easier for you and subtly praises you, he is interested in you..

But be careful, you will have to see if he has a special way of doing with you or if he is equally gentlemanly with everyone... to gauge this, it's up to you.

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5. Look for common ground

One of the most obvious signs that you can tell if a man likes you is his predisposition to find hobbies and points in common with you, for example when you chat or talk to him.For example, when you chat or when you express to him that you particularly like something.

If you tell him that you love surfing and he automatically tells you that he would love to learn how to surf... it's a clear sign of attraction. If you love dance music and he tells you that he also loves it, and invites you to go to a concert... it is also a sign that there is something special. Why does this happen? When we like someone, we try to offer an image of a better half, to let him or her know that we are a potential partner for him or her. Sharing hobbies is one of the ways to connect on a romantic and affective level.

6. Can't help but get nervous

Even the most self-confident men show signs of feeling a little insecure when they are around that girl they dream about. Stiffness, hesitant attitude, thinking a lot about what they say or do, unnatural movements... are signs of this nervousness.... are signs of this nervousness.

7. Body posture

In another article we talked about nonverbal language. It can be another aspect in which to observe certain signs of attraction to you. For example, if he imitates your posture, if he directs your body directly towards you, if he sticks out his chest... all these body gestures can indicate attraction.

8. Wants to spend time with you

One of the most obvious signs that a man feels an irrepressible attraction to you is the following: if he tries to meet you outside the usual context, asks you out for a drink or "casually" shows up at your work, he wants to be close to you.

Any pretext that a man may use to see you, you can interpret it as a sign of physical and/or romantic attraction.. In the end, he is deciding to prioritize you over other people or hobbies. If that's not a sign of attraction, let God come down and see.

Observations, nuances and extra tips

First of all, a little nuance: human beings are very complex. Someone may be showing you signals that you are interpreting incorrectly. For example, a guy may be trying to spend a lot of time with you for a reason other than physical attraction. You should appreciate this and take it into account.

In any case, and although we humans are capable of lying through words, gestures and nonverbal communication is much more difficult to conceal.. That's why gestural signals, although they may be subtle, offer us a practical way to know what that guy is thinking about you.

Another suggestion is not to close doors: there are many guys who want to meet you. For example, you can check out our article on dating apps.