Flirting on WhatsApp: 10 keys to chatting effectively

To meet that special person, it is also necessary to master communication 2.0.

The WhatsApp and social networks of flirting have become an indispensable tool for any type of human relationship. Knowing how to use WhatsApp will help us to be more successful in our love relationships.

Flirting on WhatsApp: 10 tricks to get the most out of it

We can be the kings of face-to-face flirting but and get a thousand phone numbers in one night, but if we do not learn to manage our time and our charisma by WhatsApp, it will have been useless.

Here are ten things you need to keep in mind to have an effective communication and that your relationships do not get lost in your phone book. Flirting by Whatsapp is possible, if you know how!

1. What is your goal?

We must not lose sight of the fact that, if we are having a WhatsApp conversation, it is because we want to meet that person face to face. Everything we do directly and indirectly has to be aimed at meeting with that person and prepare the interaction for the real world.

Let's behave in a coherent way and move towards our goal being aware that human relationships are not always linear and are always bidirectional: the person behind the screen is a real person; let's act accordingly.

2. Have a motive

Have a why is fundamental and it has to exist even before we have their phone number. Being very clear about why we are interested in the person in front of us will help us to be able to start a conversation and our interlocutor will not perceive us as a the typical flirt who talks to anyone.

• By the way: it is important that you know in advance how not to flirt. I recommend you to read: "The 8 mistakes of a beginner seducer".

Remembering the conversation we had will be vital to show that girl that we care and that we have a real interest in her.

3. Capture her attention

Once we are clear about our objective and the reasons that make us want to meet her, it is necessary to generate interest and create real and expectations. Do not fall into the hackneyed and cliché phrases. That's not what WhatsApp flirting is about.

It is possible that she is talking to other guys, let's be the one who is really worth it because she knows how to express herself and has attractive tastes and hobbies. Let's learn to know our strengths to expose them properly.

4. Make effective use of the law of scarcity

We value scarce things more than abundant things. Look at the bottles of expensive perfumes; they always come in small bottles, while cheap perfumes usually come in large two-liter bottles.

Let's be that small and expensive perfume bottle. This means not giving away our time and attention at any price. Being always ready to chat with her and being overly accessible people will make us be perceived as one of the hundreds of guys who are after her. Let's spend our time on productive things and spend a limited amount of time on WhatsApp. Not everything in this life is about flirting through WhatsApp...

As we have already pointed out, our goal is to meet them face to face. Let's focus on creating expectations. That does not mean that we can not have long talks, it is important to generate complicity, but let's be aware that the talk has to be beneficial for us: our time is gold.

5. Assertiveness

Our communication has to be effective. Learning to say things sincerely and clearly will help us to make the other person understand that we do not want to become his or her friend (and therefore that we are not willing to stay in the 'friendzone') and that we do not want to be their friend. friendzone) nor do we want to be their "cyberboyfriends". We are people who know what we want and are not afraid to ask for it properly.

Learning some assertive communication tricks will help us to know how to communicate our desires and to be reciprocated.

6. Get to know her

If our goal is to meet in person, our way to reach this goal is to be really interested in getting to know the girl. real interest in getting to know the girl who hides behind the screen. Let's enjoy discovering aspects of her life, interests, tastes and hobbies.

All this information will be an inexhaustible source of conversations and reasons to meet that person. Let us not fall into superficiality or banalities that do not allow us to access their feelings or our own. It is important to try to get to know the other person genuinely, and focus more on their emotions than on our own in order to connect with them.

7. Online personality

It is important to make a pause on the way to remark that our personality 2.0. has to be the same as our 1.0 personality.

Let's take advantage of this to maximize and show the best of us without the need to lie or hide our flaws. Let's be ourselves and make the tool play in our favor. Flirting by WhatsApp should not mean to create a fictitious personality but to enhance how we are, what we do and what we want.what we are, what we do and what we want.

8. Conversation

Let's adapt our message to the context and learn to write effectively and correctly. Let's look for resources to differentiate our communication from that of others by enhancing our personality. To flirt on WhatsApp we only have written resources and emoticons, as well as photos and videos.

Let's use these resources in an original way to be able to transmit our personality 2.0. in an assertive way. An appropriate way to do this is to telling our day-to-day life from an emotional perspective talking about our feelings about what happened to us today. Emoticons will help us to illustrate the message in an effective way although we should not abuse them because we can look like little children who do not take themselves seriously. Let's find games and unique ways of speaking that make our conversation different from all the others. Let's take advantage of the conversation so we can meet in person.

9. Qualification

If in the previous point we have pointed out the importance of an adequate and assertive communication, in this point we have to learn to value yours. To make it understood that we like his or her personality and what he/she tells us and why will make the other person feel valued by us and consequently we will make him/her feel special.

Let's respect their feelings just as we like them to respect ours. It is important to generate an intimacy appropriate to our message; avoid being cheesy and value their real qualities. One way to be able to meet is to argue that WhatsApp tools are limited and that it would be nice to be able to share that interesting thing she tells us face to face.

10. Share

Whatsapp allows you to send photosvideos, videos, location and voice messages. These tools are very useful to illustrate our personality. A picture is worth a thousand words. Let's add to our text a bit of our intimacy thanks to these options that the application allows us.

In addition to being able to share Internet links with which we can share songs, websites and other interests we have. Flirt by WhatsApp gives you the option to be multifaceted and fun: take advantage of it! And, while we're at it, let's not forget and do ourselves a favor; unless we see it very clearly and it comes to the point, we should neither ask for nor send dirty pictures (a practice known as sexting): the icing on the cake comes at the end.

In conclusion...

In short, the world 2.0. is not much different from 1.0. Knowing how to use the tools that WhatsApp offers us and knowing how to communicate properly in written form will make us capture their attention and we will be able to meet the person we met in that discotheque, in a correct and adequate way.

Flirting by Whatsapp is not a chimera, but we must take into account certain important elements. Let's not abuse the application and take advantage of the time, outside and within the network, to generate expectations and to be able to have a date.