How can we improve our sexual desire?

Keys and secrets to increase your libido and live a fulfilling sex life.

Often, in the meetings of tupper sex that I do with PlacerConSentido I meet people who ask me "how can I get more aroused?", "how can I feel more sexual desire?". Or: "lately I don't get excited as much but I want to feel more, how can I do it?

All these people add that their partner is the same as always, that they love her very much and they have always liked her. How come now it doesn't seem to be enough?

Fighting routine

As time goes by and as routine takes hold of relationships with a partner, it is normal to get used to what you have and forget to look for passion, to play and to experiment in order to awakenand to play and experiment to awaken desire. However, that does not mean that this should be so. Eroticizing our mind so that passion does not die will allow us to live sexuality with greater intensity, and that is why it is very useful to generate and create erotic fantasies that enhance sexual desire. sexual desire. The key question is: how to achieve it?

It is a really frequent query and, surprisingly enough, it is asked by both men and women. Many other people do not even admit that they would like to have sexual fantasies. However, this may be due to a lack of knowledge about this concept.

The sexual fantasies are not unfulfilled desires, nor should they be understood as sexual failures, because they are not behaviors or ideas about sexual fantasies.because they are not behaviors or ideas that we should carry out. They are simply a set of thoughts, intertwined images and desires that, however irrational and surreal they may seem, we want to use to fantasize in order to feel aroused while daydreaming.

How to use fantasies to feed sexual desire?

To build erotic fantasies we can use audio-visual material, erotic and/or pornographic videos, but it is also possible to use stories. Far from wanting to fall into the world of conventional pornography, where sex built by and for men appears (incredible bodies, hypermuscled, smeared in oil and performing hard and eternal sexual behaviors...) here you can find some examples of a more realistic, beautiful and full of those flashes of passion that we seek in our fantasies erotica.

1. X-art: erotic movies that are works of art

X-art is a French production company where each frame is a tapestry of romanticism, simple tapestry of romanticism, simple and beautiful.. The image is subdued and the encounters between the bodies become eternal. It fulfills our expectation of lengthening the moment of passion with kisses and tenderness, which has an impact on the potential of these films as a source of sexual desire.

2. ŸErika Lust: [email protected] normal people who also know how to seduce.

Erika Lust is the pioneer of erotica for women, meeting the needs that are so often claimed in bed and that are finally embodied in porn. In her official facebook page she presents those gods and goddesses of pleasure, they are boys and girls that we could find on the street and could be our lovers.. Handsome, stylish, and above all eager to activate your most hidden fantasies.

3. Erotic stories, a new way to enjoy sex.

With the use of words we can imagine much more than we think and we can visualize every scene and every dialogue as if we were the protagonists of the story. That's why, if you like to read more, you can always use the narrative material you can find in erotic stories of all kinds. Many of these texts will make nighttime reading lovers find themselves hooked to their pages.

Resources to improve your sex life

Another option that we have to feel more appetite and to enliven our sexual desire is to like ourselves and to feel desired. liking ourselves and feeling desired. So I encourage you to think about how you could change something about your appearance, clothes, lingerie, makeup, hair, accessories ... whatever it takes to feel sexier. Do you dare to choose a change and make it? What reaction will you generate in the other? Looking at ourselves with different eyes helps to raise our self-esteem and eroticize sexual encounters to increase libido. But, in addition, if we feel good, others will also see us as more attractive.

There's no better way to feel desired than to look at your partner and see how he or she looks at you!

I hope these ideas have helped to awaken desire.