Seduce and attract with your personal brand

Several keys to generate a consistent and attractive personal branding.

In recent years, most companies have realized the importance of a good branding process and a powerful the importance of a good branding process and a powerful brand for business success. for business success. If you don't have a brand, how are you recognized, how do you differentiate yourself from others?

When we talk about brand we are referring to something more than a logo, we are talking about nothing more and nothing less than the 'soul' of the company. Is there anything more important than that?

What would happen if we were to transfer the concept of branding to interpersonal relationships, specifically, to the area of seduction and attraction? Wherever you go, whoever you relate to, you are projecting your personal brand, whether you do it consciously or unconsciously, but you are doing it. Are you willing to brand yourself and improve your personal brand?

What is branding and what is branding?

Both concepts are closely related. Andy Stalman, one of the most renowned branding specialists in Spain and Latin America, defines them simply: "Branding is the process of creating, developing and building a brand. And the brand is what people say, feel or think about your product, your service, your company, etc.".

Jeff Bezos, founder and CEO of Amazon, defines brand in a similar way: "Your brand is what they say about you when you're not in front of it".

Applying this to the realm of seduction, your personal brand is not so much how you perceive yourself, but how others perceive you.but how others perceive you, especially when you are trying to seduce. But it is not about your physique, nor about what you do or say, but about the intangible, your presence, your soul, your spirit. The failure or success of your personal brand depends much more on the internal than the external.

A good example of this is when we are in front of a person with a spectacular physique, but who does not inspire us, does not attract us. Metaphorically, it would be like finding someone with a good logo on their brand, but empty of soul. on their brand, but empty of soul, of content.

What is the purpose of personal branding?

In the business and professional world, the goal of any brand is to achieve success; therefore, taking it to the field of seduction, your personal brand should also be focused in that direction.

We are not talking about an exercise of self-analysis or introspection. It is not an analytical task but a creative one.. Do not ask yourself who you are, but who you want to become.

An analogy: if you are a photographer and want to develop a successful personal brand, it's not about focusing on what your failures are or why you don't Excel in certain areas, but what kind of photographer you want to be, and how you want your career to be successful. For example: do you see yourself taking great portraits of your clients, or more of an amazing travel and adventure reportage? Will your style of dress as a photographer be elegant, or perhaps casual and bohemian?

In the same way, applying it to seduction, which way do you want to direct your personal brand to be more successful in seducing and attracting?

Improve your personal brand

Overall, there are two basic ways to do this:

1. Rational way.

This is the usual way people try to improve in different aspects of their lives. It is a good way to try to move forward, but we will see later that in the field of seduction the creative way is the most suitable for this purpose.

Make a study of yourself

You can start by studying what your strengths areIn what contexts you are best at seducing, in front of what type of people, in what circumstances, etc. You can write down on a sheet of paper all your virtues and skills that tend to give you more results, and thus enhance them. For example: your cheerfulness, your way of speaking, your tone of voice, etc.

Gather all these qualities and be attentive to offer them to the girl or guy you like. It is good to be aware of them and make them part of your personal brand.

Improve in areas that make it easier for you to seduce.

You can incorporate new aspects and new skills in your life that offer you better results than you currently have when it comes to seduction. than the ones you currently have when it comes to seducing and attracting. For example: improve your physical and aesthetic image, learn Latin dances, cultivate empathy with others, improve your way of communicating, etc.

Whatever you try to improve your personal brand, it will be fine. However, as we mentioned before, the rational way is very useful in many fields but not so much in seduction, since we are talking about moving others. we are talking about moving others, captivating, fascinating, and that is not achieved with reasons.And that is not achieved with reasons, not even with skills, but with emotions. Next, we will take a look at the creative way.

Creative way 2.

If with the rational way you connected with your most logical and analytical part (your Left Hemisphere), now it is about connecting with your most emotional and sensitive part.

As in this case you want to be more successful in seducing and attracting, the creative way is certainly the one that will give you the most results.. Here are two creative techniques to improve your personal brand:

Take inspiration from someone.

Bring to mind a person (friend, acquaintance or celebrity) who is already successful at seducing and, for a moment, be that person, be inspired by them as if you really were themas if you could really feel yourself in their skin. Notice the way she walks, the way she dresses, the way she talks, the way she positions herself, etc. How do you feel about being that person?

How do you feel being that person? How do you carry yourself? What changes do you notice? What things do you notice? How do you talk to the girl or guy you like? What plans do you have to do together?

The more you draw inspiration from a person who already seduces and already attracts, the easier it will be for you to get closer to success. In doing so, you will find that a wealth of possibilities will emerge that you were not able to feel or see before.. That is the great power of the intuitive mind, the ability to create a new and better reality.

Change your "hat".

This technique is inspired by the famous book Six Thinking Hatsby Edward de Bono, one of the most renowned psychologists in the field of creativity.

Imagine that you take a hat of a bright color (Edward de Bono chose yellow, but you can choose the one you like the most), and you put it on your head. When you do so, you can only make positive judgments about your life. Negativity disappears from your thinking; there are no more negative evaluations about anything or anyone.

When you think like this, it's about you imagining yourself already succeeding in seducing and attractingYou already like yourself, you already attract many girls, or many guys, you already feel good about your personal brand, comfortable with yourself, proud of you...

Now that you are successful, now that you are already attracting, how do you see yourself? How do you walk? What kind of clothes do you choose? What do you talk about with the people you are attracted to? Where do you go, what plans do you have with those people?

Make notes and perceive all the changes that are created in you when you put on that 'hat of success', the hat of joy, the hat of that personal brand that already seduces, that already attracts.

As you can see, these two proposed creative techniques are in line with what we are looking for in personal branding: success.. To the extent that you place yourself in it, that you start from it, you will have the best guarantee to be part of that success.

Now you have two powerful creative exercises to seduce and attract others. If you practice them, you will be improving your personal brand, and therefore I predict many successes for you!