Women with a university education are less likely to find a partner.
Intellect and cultural level are important in assessing the attractiveness of people.
In recent decades, women have fought hard for their rights and for equality between the sexes, and several customs and power relations have changed as a result of this effort. Although there is still much to be done in this regard, according to a study by the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD), women are better educated than men in terms of university in terms of university studies.
This reality, which could be positive, correlates negatively with the fact of having a partner: heterosexual women with higher education tend to be less likely to have a partner than men. tend to be less likely to enter into a formal relationship.. At least this is what science affirms. In this article we will review some studies that address this issue.
The relationship between studying and having a partner
In terms of love, the tastes of each person may vary; however, many individuals seem to be attracted to the appearance of intelligence of other people, which is known as sapiosexuality. But being intelligent and having higher education does not seem to be good when it comes to meeting the one we want to have a serious relationship with. Women's high level of education hinders their chances of having a partner.
Jon Birger, a financial and technology journalist, decided to investigate this phenomenon. His curiosity arose because a friend of his, apparently very intelligent and educated, could not find someone compatible with her. This led him to conduct research in the United States with demographic data, and he analyzed heterosexual individuals who had higher education and were in search of the ideal person. With the results, he published a book called Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game in which he explains some of his findings.
The cause: a shortage of trained men
According to the author, one of the causes of educated women not succeeding in dating relationships is the shortage of men with the same level of education. At least in the United States, the shortage of college-educated men is not only a phenomenon characteristic of the big cities in this country, such as New York City, where there are 4 college-educated women for every 3 college-educated men. That is, except in Silicon Valley, where the country's economy drives the male research labor market (Birger thinks).
Data extracted by Binger shows that in 2015, 35% more women graduated than men, and of these, 33% are still single.. As the author concludes, a large portion of women do not agree to be in a relationship with someone with a lower level of education, which makes the statistics show that relative trend towards singleness.
Intelligent women are more likely to be single
Binger's study is not the only one that has been conducted in this line of research, and the hypothesis that the most intelligent women are at the same time the most demanding and, consequently, tend to remain single, is not new. In fact, a study led by John Carney and published in the British publications Daily Mail and Elite Daily, among others, already concluded that this was a very real possibility.
This statement could be considered classist and prejudiced, but perhaps this idea is not so far-fetched. Emotional connection has a lot to do with finding a person who mentally seduces us, and at least in the case of intelligent women with learned cultural resources, it can be complicated to find a man with whom she can express herself freely and feel intellectually stimulated. with whom to express herself freely and feel intellectually stimulated.. The body can enter through the eyes, but if there is no mental connection, that relationship can hardly last (unless it is a toxic relationship).
However, Carney's conclusions have aroused some controversy, because, according to him, less intelligent women have more free time because they do not dedicate many hours to study more or work more to earn money. Less intellectually gifted women tend to create relationships with men who are more intelligent than them, who have a higher economic position and a better job. If you want to go deeper into this study and learn about its conclusions, you can read this article: "Intelligent women tend to be single".
Sapiosexual women?
It seems, therefore, that at least in the case of women there is a certain degree of sapiosexuality with an excluding sense. Logically, each person is differentBut these data put the spotlight on the fact that many women are attracted to the "coconut". Sapiosexuals are those people who say they are attracted to the "inside", that is, to intellectual capacity.
For these individuals, foreplay begins with interesting and stimulating conversations. interesting and stimulating conversations (art, politics, philosophy, etc.). (art, politics, philosophy, etc.). The sapiosexual thinks that his partner's intellect is one of the most important traits he possesses.
Men prefer them less thoughtful
And... what about men? Do they prefer intelligent women or not? Well, it seems that they prefer women with fewer intellectual resources. This is the conclusion of research conducted by Lutheran University and the University of Texas. The researchers from these universities claim that men are intimidated by intelligent women and are particularly attracted to women who are not very thoughtful.
To learn these results, the researchers surveyed a large group of students about which actions, body postures, attitudes or personality traits they found most attractive. This helped them to extract 88 factors that they used as part of their study, in which they showed a series of photographs with these traits to 76 men.
The subjects were asked what behaviors they associated with these and what was their level of their level of desire for these factors.. The men stated that more vulnerable and less intelligent women were more attractive.
(Updated at Apr 13 / 2024)