64 questions for your boyfriend (to get to know him better)

A nice test for you to discover more about each other.

Our partner is one of the most important people in our life, what started as a strong attraction for that someone, today is our great love, the person with whom we want to share the rest of our life.

But, do you really know your partner? In this article you can find a list of questions you can ask your boyfriend to get to know him better..

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Getting to know your partner better with 64 questions

Obviously, if you have been with him for a long time, you will have a better chance of knowing him better than if you are in the initial stages of the relationship. However, these questions can help you understand him better and you may be surprised by some of your boyfriend's answers even though you have been dating for some time.

This is not an interrogation of your boyfriend or an exhaustive analysis of his personality, it is simply a way to get to know his most intimate tastes and values, which will provide you with information about the person with whom you intend to share the rest of your life.

Do you know how your boyfriend thinks?

If you want to delve into the thoughts of your romantic partner, here is a list of possible questions you can ask him/her in moments of intimacy.. So keep an eye on the following lines, because their answers will interest you.

1. If you found out I was pregnant, what would you do?

His face will probably change when you ask him this question (if he thinks you're really pregnant), but it can be fun to see how your partner reacts.

2. Are you conservative or liberal in your intimate relationships?

People have their own beliefs about intimate relationships.. Ideally, the people who share the rest of your life should have similar values on this subject, regardless of what your thoughts are on the subject.

3. Continuing along the lines of this last question, do you have any fantasies?

A way to know their tastes and preferences regarding the moments of intimacy and, in addition, it will give you information about their limits in the moments of intimacy.

4. What would the perfect day be like for you?

Sometimes we think that what our beliefs about life are going to be shared by the rest of the world, and this is not so. Each person has their own tastes and hobbies, and we must respect that.. The answer to this question can provide you with information about your hobbies and likes and dislikes of your boyfriend and what are his expectations in life.

5. Do you have any dreams in life? What are they?

A very useful question to know what expectations and goals your partner has in life. It also helps you to know if these goals are realistic or not.

6. What is the most important thing about you in a relationship?

We all have an idyllic image of what our love relationship would be like and what the person with whom we share the rest of our life should be like. Some value sharing the same tastes, others the stability, others the intelligence of their partner and others the loving attitude of this one.

7. Do you feel comfortable with your body?

A question that lets you know how your boyfriend values his body.. A negative answer can give you information that the person does not have a high self-esteem.

8. What do you expect from me?

This is a way to know how your partner sees you. It also allows you to be clear if your boyfriend sees you as a complement or if he is a dependent or codependent person.

9. If you could move home, where would you go?

A question that can give you information about where your partner would be happy and whether he/she likes big cities, exciting places or tranquility.

10. Do you plan to have children? How many do you have in mind?

There are individuals who do not want to have children, although this may seem strange to you. You'd better find out as soon as possible if you share the same tastes as your partner in this regard..

11. What do you like best in bed?

Some people like to have unconventional relationships, while others value affection and feeling loved more.

12. And what do you like to do or have done to you the most?

For those moments of intimacy, it's best to know what your partner likes best. Communication is key in this type of situation.

13. How much importance do you give to physique?

Many individuals value things such as, for example, warmth, stability, intelligence. However, others value physical attractiveness more than any other quality.

14. If you had a magic lamp in your hands, what three wishes would you make?

Another way to know what your partner's goals and objectives are and if he/she includes you in his/her future.

15. Sushi or pasta?

You can ask this question at the beginning of the relationship to find out what their culinary tastes are. You will have many dinners to enjoy together..

16. What is your favorite pet?

If you like animals you will be able to know if he is a dog or cat lover.

17. When do you perform better: in the morning or at night?

Some people are morning people and others are evening people, so they are at a more optimal level of performance in that part of the day.

18. What kind of music do you prefer?

If you are a music lover, you can find out more about your partner's musical tastes. This way you will know whether to take him/her with you to the concert or not.

19. Do I give you what you are looking for in a girlfriend?

An interesting question that, answered honestly, allows you to find out if you meet your partner's expectations and gives you information about what your partner is looking for when he/she is with someone.

20. Do you have any fears in life?

Worries are something we all have. This is the best way to get your boyfriend to open his Heart to you so you can fight together to get ahead.

21. Is there something you feel and would like me to feel?

This is a way to empathize with your lover and have him express to you what his most intimate and important feelings are.

22. Is there something you would like to change about yourself? What is it?

Maybe your partner has some trauma or remembers a bad experience. It's good for him or her to be honest with you so you can support him or her.

23. Would you change anything about our relationship?

You should not be offended by the answer to this question. Everything can be improved, even your relationship.

24. Who has been the most important person in your life?

We all have a role model, someone who has inspired us throughout our lives.. This information can help you understand what their values are or what their concept of life is.

25. What is the most difficult moment you have had to live through?

Some people keep some things to themselves because they don't like to appear weak. However, revealing this kind of information can bring you together.

26. What has been the most important moment of your life?

The answer to this question may reveal what really makes you happy.

27. Where would you like to go to rest for a few days?

Useful information to find out if your partner needs a break and where you can go for a few days.

28. What is the most exciting thing about intimacy?

Another way to tell your partner to confess what really drives him/her to the limit of desire so that you can please him/her.

29. What kind of life would you like to lead (if money were not necessary)?

This question can reveal your partner's true desires, those hidden deep in his or her heart.

30. What do you like most about me?

A direct question that gives you information about what he/she values most about you.

31. What is your favorite book?

Does your partner read, and if so, what does he/she like to read? Not enough people read every day. Let him tell you about his tastes and you will be able to find out if he is more of a philosopher or if he likes romantic novels.

32. Action or humor movies?

The answer to this question can tell you if he is a serious person or if, on the contrary, he is a guy with a sense of humor. Undoubtedly, one of the most valued qualities when it comes to having a partner.

33. What rules did you break as a teenager?

Everyone has a story to tell from their teenage years, whether it's skipping class or trying marijuana. Find out what it was like when you were young.

34. What bothers you most about me?

Being honest about this question shouldn't bother you. Communication is key to a better relationship.

35. What is your opinion about infidelity? Have you ever been unfaithful?

With this question you can find out what your partner thinks about infidelity.. It also gives you information about their values on this subject.

36. What does love mean to you?

Love can have different meanings for different people. This question is important to know if the person has a realistic view of love, which is known as mature love.

37. Do you have a secret you haven't told me?

Maybe after this question I will confess something I have never told you before.

38. What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?

We have all had embarrassing situations in our lives where we have had a bad time.

39. How do you see this relationship in 5 years?

This question will give you information about your level of commitment to your relationship.

40. What do you think of my mother?

It is important that if you get along with your mother, so does he.

41. What do you think about marriage?

There are more and more people who are reluctant to get married.. If your idea is to get married, it is good for him to tell you what he thinks about it.

42. Do you regret anything you have done in life?

It's good that you tell each other these kinds of things because then there are no secrets in the relationship.

43. Do you believe that people change?

This question can be used to know to what extent the other person believes in the essences, that there is something in us that never changes, or if on the contrary he/she believes that we totally evolve with the passage of time and with the passing of experiences.

44. Do you give importance to celebrate the birthdays of when we met?

A question to know if as a couple you value this type of dates with symbolic relevance, or not.

45. Do you like to post selfies of the two of you together?

It seems silly, but in reality selfies, which nowadays can constitute a good part of the public image that you give as a couple, can be hated by people who are "forced" to participate in these simple rituals.

There are philosophies of life that clash with the idea of constantly showing others what you are doing, but many prefer not to contradict their partner so as not to look bad when they are asked to take a photo designed to be published on the Internet.

46. What would you give up in life for love?

To know your priorities in life and the degree of involvement in the relationship.

47. Do you think love lasts only three years?

Although science points to three years as the beginning of the end of love, not everyone perceives it this way.

48. What song do you think best summarizes our relationship?

There are song lyrics that have the amazing power to remind us of a special person.

49. Would you go on a backpacking trip without money with me?

An adventure like this serves to get to know each other better and to strengthen bonds even in extreme situations.

50. What do you think are the pillars of our relationship?

A good time to philosophize and bring up the moral and practical values that should govern your courtship.

51. Which of my friends do you like best? And worst?

To find out which social relationships you like and which you would prefer to avoid.

52. Do you feel jealous when I talk to my ex-boyfriend?

One of those situations that, almost inevitably, arouse suspicion.

53. What would the ideal house be like for us to live together?

A good idea: imagining and daydreaming about the possibility of a little love nest.

54. What movie would you like to see with me that you have already seen?

Maybe you're expecting a romantic movie but your boyfriend surprises you with something you didn't expect.

55. Do you think we are soul mates, or do we complement each other?

A good question to find out if he thinks you are alike or rather complementary.

56. What do you think is the biggest obstacle we must overcome to consolidate our relationship?

Every couple has a cloud that needs to be cleared up to keep things running smoothly.

57. Is it important for you to have a wedding anniversary?

A detail that some people value very much and others do not.

58. Do you think we are good at choosing places to travel to?

Exploring common tastes in travel.

59. What does it mean to you to be unfaithful?

Not everyone has the same definition for this very relevant concept in the world of the couple.

60. Do you think our personalities complement each other?

Another way to know our mutual compatibilities.

61. Do you have a good time with my friends?

A question to avoid unnecessary moments of boredom.

62. What hurts the most not to have achieved?

Knowing your partner's frustrations is also a way to understand him/her better.

63. What is your main goal for the coming year?

Asking about the most important motivations.

64. In what country do you think we could live together?

A way to speculate about a future together somewhere else.