71 phrases to flirt and seduce (very effective)
A selection of verbal strategies to attract the attention of someone special to you.
We have all found ourselves at some time in some place and we have seen someone we really liked come in. And of course, when you experience the strange sensation of your Heart racing at the sight of that person you like so much, you feel a strong urge to say something to him or her.
- You might be interested in, "What is love at first sight?"
Phrases to flirt and attract a special person.
But, what can you say to that person you just had a crush on? How can you break the ice and start a conversation with that person you pass by every morning at the coffee shop? Below you can find a list of pickup lines, some funny and others full of sincerity.
First of all, however, you should know that these phrases will not always have an effect, because much has to do with whether the other person feels attraction for you or the attitude you show when pronouncing them.
1. I just moved to the city, could you give me directions to your house?
A fun conversation starter. Then... who knows?
2. I was a homosexual until a moment ago
With this phrase, you're telling the person how attractive they are.. If you are in fact homosexual, you can say: "I was heterosexual until a moment ago.
I don't know how to kiss, can you teach me?
A very direct phrase. But with the right person it can work.
4. Sorry... uh... you're so beautiful that I forgot what I was going to say.
A funny phrase that might make the other person follow your lead.
5. I'm not sure if I'm your type, but why don't we give each other a chance to find out?
A sentence with sincerity. You're speaking your mind.
6. It's not my fault that I like you. It's your fault for having everything I love.
Blaming you for your attractiveness. Well... it's a way of telling her that you like her..
7. I'm sure we have a lot of things in common, what do you say we take the liberty of finding out?
A non-invasive but very direct phrase.
8. Of the 24 hours in a day, 16 I think of you and the other 8 I dream of you.
This phrase can be said to someone you already know and for whom you are pining.
9. Could you lend me a dictionary? I'm speechless at the sight of you
A phrase with a touch of irony. You're sure to bring a smile to his face.
10. If being sexy were a crime, you would have to spend the rest of your life in jail.
A classic that has been heard a lot. But if you know how to follow the conversation, it can be a way to break the ice.
11. I wish to have beautiful children someday and would like to ask your parents for a few tips, to find out how they made it.
Using parents to tell you how pretty or cute you are. You might like it.
12. For temptations like you, there are as many sinners as me.
A full-fledged statement. Who wouldn't want to sin with that person?
13. Don't waste your time looking for your better half, here I am!
This phrase can also be used with "Prince Charming" instead of the other half.
14. Excuse me, do we have any friends in common who could introduce us?
A funny phrase that is saying that you can't wait to spend time with that person.
15. I didn't believe in love at first sight until you walked in here.
We've all felt love at first sight at one time or another. Why not tell someone about it? So we don't stay with the desire to try...
16. -Do you know how big the universe is? -No. -Then you don't know how much I like you
Another way of saying that this person drives you crazy.
17. -Hey, you have something on your face. -What? -The most beautiful smile I've ever seen in my life.
And it's the smile that drives you crazy.. Every time you see it, you're breathless.
18. I would love to see you without makeup every morning of my life.
Not all women will take this sentence well, but I'm sure that some of them will.. Especially if she really likes you.
19. Excuse me, is your name Google? It is that in you I find everything I am looking for.
An original phrase to tell him that you love him.
20. You are so handsome that I forgot what I was going to say to you.
You like that person so much that it's hard for you to concentrate.
21. Where do they sell the numbers to win this prize?
This is the biggest prize you can win. And you let them know...
22. I don't know if you're a dream or a reality, but if I'm dreaming I don't want to wake up.
Sometimes you meet people who make you daydream.
Did the sun just come up, or did you smile at me?
Another compliment about smiling. There are smiles that stop the world.
24. What's a star doing flying so low?
A corny pick-up line that can work.
25. Everywhere I hear you, everywhere I look at you, you're not everywhere but I take you with me.
A phrase that you have to use when you already have a relationship with that person.
26. I know I can't fly, but there is someone who makes me feel that I can, and that person is you.
A phrase full of sincerity. Sometimes that's all it takes for the other person to realize that he/she likes you.
27. Hi, I wanted to introduce myself because I liked/appealed to your (attribute).
A classic way to start a conversation. This way he/she already knows that he/she likes you.
28. Hi, I wanted to know if in addition to being attractive you are also nice.
In other words, you like the person physically. Now you want to know if he/she is also nice.
29. Hi, I saw you and I couldn't help introducing myself. What's your name?
An unoriginal phrase but full of meaning.
30. For a moment I thought I had died and entered heaven. But now I see that I am alive, and heaven has come to me.
A full-fledged statement. Life has a different color when that person is near.
31. Which animal do you like better: a duck or a penguin?
A phrase to leave you in awe...but a different way to start a conversation.
32. What's the atmosphere like... I've never been here before... blah blah blah... is it always like this?
Another phrase to break the ice. Now then you have to play your cards.
33. Do you have Facebook (Instagram, WhatsApp...)? I would like to add you to get to know you better
With all the sincerity in the world. You ask her for Facebook and then flirt calmly.
34. I love your eyes! I would like to see them again....
If she has special eyes, you can use them to tell her that you want to meet up with her or him..
35. I love the song that's playing, do you know whose song it is?
For when you are in a place with music. This way you have a topic to start a conversation and an opportunity to start talking.
36. I'm going to be honest with you, so I'm not going to beat around the bush. You have something special and I'd like to get to know you.
You like it, period. Is there something wrong with that? No, isn't there?
37. I saw that you were looking at me and... I think we feel the same way.
For when you have crossed each other's eyes several times. A seductive phrase with great power.
38. I need a woman's (or man's) opinion...
This is how you start a conversation. It doesn't matter if what you say doesn't make sense..
39. Have you hurt yourself? No, why? (Answers the other person) Because angels fall from the sky, you might have hurt yourself.
If the other person takes it well. You've already got it...
40. Where can I find a coffee shop around here... Will you join me?
A way of saying that you want to have a drink with that person.
41. Who lies more: men or women?
A random phrase to start a conversation. This question can be very playful.
42. I know you don't know me. That's why I've come to introduce myself....
You like her and you're not going to waste the only opportunity you have to introduce yourself.
43. You know, I suddenly felt like talking to you and asking you out... What would you say?
A direct phrase to ask you out for a drink without mincing words.
44. Do you have any idea how much a panda bear weighs? Well, I think the weight is enough to break the ice, what is your name?
The important thing is not the question. But rather that it remains checkered and then you want to know what it's called. One of those witty phrases to start a pleasant conversation.
45. Excuse me, do you know what time it is? Because seeing you has made me lose track of time.
A funny phrase to start a conversation that will lead you to something else.
46. Why are you so lonely? Do you mind if I keep you company?
When that person is lonely, you can be a flirting opportunity. Just make her feel comfortable, and it will be easy to strike up a nice conversation.
47. Could you tell me your name? I dreamed about you yesterday, but I woke up just when you were going to tell me your name.
You can use this phrase, for example, with that guy or girl you often see in the store in front of your house.
48. It's hard to believe it took me 23 years to meet you.
You have lived without him or her until now. Now it's time to spend your days by his or her side.
49. Ever since you entered this room I couldn't stop looking at you. We could get to know each other...
A direct way of telling him that you noticed his presence when he came in the room.
50. I don't know what it is, but I felt something incredible when I saw you. And the truth is, I don't want to let you escape.
You felt something incredible when you saw him and you don't want to miss this opportunity to meet him. Another way to start a conversation that, maybe, will end up being a romantic story.
51. Looking at you I bumped into the wall and hurt myself. I need your name and phone number for the insurance.
A funny fictitious situation that gives you a chance to get to know each other.
52. I'm looking for someone who loves me and I think you could be the right person.
Resorting to theatricality to seduce.
53. I don't usually do this, but... do you have a light?
Humor and cheekiness serve to create an atmosphere of complicity.
54. I'm writing a novel, if you give me your details I'll send it to you.
Playing the role of a person who has trouble socializing can be used as a humorous device.
55. You smell good, have you had pizza?
A mix of pick-up line and joke that predisposes the other person to respond predisposes the other person to respond with humor..
56. Do you believe in love at first sight or should it happen again?
Using yourself as an object of parody is very effective in creating funny moments.
57. I really like your eyes, especially the left one.
A disconcerting but amusing pick-up line.
58. I've lost my phone number, can I have yours?
Another one of the pick up lines based on funny fictitious situations.
59. I don't see you much but I think about you a lot
A poetic way of expressing attraction
60. Kiss me
One of the shortest pick-up lines; it consists of two words combined.
61. You are the only person with 2 hearts, yours and mine.
The heart is a symbol widely used to seduce.
62. I may not be the most attractive person in the room, but I'm the only one introducing myself to you.
A humorous pick-up line.
63. You are so sweet that with you anyone becomes diabetic.
Seducing using synesthesia.
64. What you do is walking and the rest is spoiling the floor.
A funny way of to recognize someone's elegance.
65. I hope you know how to give mouth to mouth because I'm out of breath.
One of the classics of pickup lines.
66. Can you buy me a drink? I dropped mine when I saw you
Using cheek from time to time can create funny moments of complicity.
67. I almost fear death as much as the possibility of never seeing you again.
A tragicomic way of showing interest.
68. If I keep looking at you for a long time I will need new eyes.
Once again, humor is a very useful tool to create a relaxed atmosphere. create a relaxed atmosphere.
69. Nothing I can say will express well how much I like you.
A way of expressing the attraction you feel by escaping from conventionalisms.
70. I hope to see you more often
Another of the most honest phrases to use to keep in touch with someone.
71. You are one of the most attractive people I have ever met.
Using transparency and simplicity to express feelings.
(Updated at Apr 13 / 2024)